Thursday, April 29, 2010
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About Me
- Drew
- We all have our contradictions. I'm attracted to strong and assertive women, and I love using rope, cuffs and chains to make them helpless and vulnerable. I want a girl to be an equal partner who can hold her own and make me think, and sometimes I'll have to grab her by the hair, bend her over my knee and put her in her place with a nice hard spanking. Chivalry and respect are a natural reflex for me, and fucking my girl while she's chained to the bed, begging for permission to cum, feels just as natural.
Truth is, these aren't really contradictions. When I first started exploring bondage and domination in my late teens, I wondered how I'd reconcile my urges with my values in a healthy relationship. Over the years, I realized that BDSM should never exist without empathy and respect, and sharing the true nature of our sexuality leads to a depth of intimacy than most couples will never know. In nature, harmony only exists as a balance of conflicts. Why should the human psyche be any different? We're taught to squeeze our identities into these tidy socially convenient boxes, but what if embracing our entire selves is the only way to find the balance we were born to have?